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Watch the process before you make a single call

The questions I'm asked most at kitchen tables, answered on camera and in writing. Nothing here is gated. Start with the series that matches your situation.

Reverse mortgages

For homeowners 62+ and the families and advisors helping them. Watch in order if you're new to this.

Reverse Mortgage Process Explained: First Call to Funding

14:07 · August 10, 2026

Reverse Mortgages: Does the Bank Actually Take Your House?

12:00 · June 2, 2026

Reverse Mortgage Line of Credit: Why It Can Grow Over Time

13:03 · May 18, 2026

Reverse Mortgage Rates: Why a Higher Rate Can Actually Help You

11:31 · August 4, 2026

Reverse Mortgage: Will a Younger Spouse Lose the House?

8:27 · July 29, 2026

8 Reverse Mortgage Myths (And What's Actually True)

7:52 · May 21, 2026

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Self-employed and asset-based

Qualifying on deposits or assets instead of tax returns.

Self Employed? How to Get a Mortgage Without Tax Returns

12:20 · August 30, 2026

Asset Depletion Mortgage: Qualify With Assets, Not Income

8:49 · June 19, 2026
Buying a home

Cash to close, loan estimates, concessions, buydowns, and why pre-approval first is backwards.

First Time Getting a Mortgage? Every Step, Start to Finish

22:38 · August 14, 2026

Stop Comparing Mortgage Rates. Compare Loan Estimates Instead.

24:08 · July 8, 2026

Waiting for Lower Rates? You Can't Refinance the Purchase Price

7:26 · July 24, 2026

Seller Concessions: Why the Lowest Price Isn't Always the Best Deal

10:33 · July 16, 2026

How Much Cash to Buy a House? It's Not Just the Down Payment

5:46 · June 7, 2026

Closing Costs vs Cash to Close: Why They Are Not the Same

6:26 · May 5, 2026

What Is a 2-1 Buydown? Where the Money Actually Comes From

6:56 · May 29, 2026

Why Getting Pre Approved First Is Backwards

7:29 · March 7, 2026

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Homeowners and rates

Recasts, refinances, and what actually moves mortgage rates.

Mortgage Recast Explained: Lower Your Payment Without Refinancing

9:13 · June 29, 2026

When Will Mortgage Rates Go Down? Why the Fed Doesn't Decide

9:25 · June 16, 2026
Written guides

Long reads with real numbers

Reverse mortgage written guides are being added next. For now the reverse mortgage pages are the most complete written resource on this site.

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